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    What do I become when I grow big?

    Toyna (7 years): Mama, it is so difficult to decide what do I become when I grow big. Mama: Why? Toyna: Because there are so many things I can become. Mama (thinking): I am so proud, she is asking this question, rather than just jumping on the most glamorous band wagon. Mama: You don’t need to decide what you want to become. You try and find what you enjoy doing most and just practice it more and more.

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    Good Enough?

    We often ask this question about things around us. Is this apple good enough to eat? Is this project good enough to take? Is this post good enough to read? Not only about things, we also ask this question about ourselves. Am I a good enough wife, lover, mother, sister, daughter, employee, manager, cook, listener, speaker, thinker, doer, … The list of good enough questions is endless.  Do we ever get answers to these? Is there ever one answer? How do we measure goodness and how do we determine what is good enough. Do we determine good enough from a point of view of ourselves or from a point of…